I'm just a goth, not lolita.
I still make my own clothes, and most of the current ones are about leather, spikes and biker/rocker aesthetics. ^^ I'm a bad goth too. XD
I just don't care. And it looks funny that the girls are trying to look more fairy-like and fair-like by "supporting the designers etc...". While they're so often whorish and catty IRL. It looks like nothing else than an escape from who they really are and what they don't wanna change.
Oops, I'm talking like some ex-friends of mine. Sorry. =)